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You're Just Not That Into Him (Part 1)

“I don't think I am as in love with my boyfriend as he is with me.  I care about him a lot, we always have fun together and we have good sexual chemistry.  He has maybe 70% of what I would look for in...

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Cutting to the Chase on Cheating

Why might Tiger cheat?  Cheating on your partner comes down to these three things.  Period.read more

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Dating Decisions: Good, Fast or Cheap?

There's an old adage in project management that says it's impossible to create a product or service that is good, fast and cheap. What is good and cheap won't be fast, what is good and fast won't be...

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What Gates, Crowley and Couples in Conflict Have in Common

“My sense is, you’ve got two good people in a circumstance in which neither of them were able to resolve the incident in the way that it should have been resolved”.  President Obama’s words sum up many...

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Are Women Always More Selective in Mate Choice?: Misleading Research Conclusions

Satoshi Kanazawa's latest blog post (Are Women Always More Selective In Mate Choice Than Men?) caught my attention. I love controversial and provocative studies and reporting, but I also know that in...

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Intense Sexual Chemistry (Part 1)

You're single and content and suddenly ambushed by an intense, intoxicating connection with someone you've just met. Intense sexual "chemistry" is a high like no other. But it can also make you do...

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Intense Sexual Chemistry (Part 2)

In this Sunday's New York Times Vows column, actress Sarah Kabanuck and Il Divo singer David Miller recalled their first meeting. She said "There was a moment of connection, but it was so intense that...

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Here's Who Took Joe Wilson's Picture and How

In response to Satoshi Kanazawa's conspiracy theory about who might have taken Joe Wilson's picture at the moment of his outburst at Obama's congressional speech, I suggested in an earlier post that it...

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The Paradox Of Virgins And Vamps

The busty, beautiful college student sat across from me in our first session wearing a tight t-shirt that said "I bring men to tears". She was smart, outspoken and sexy and called herself a feminist....

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You're Just Not That Into Him (Part 2) - You Married Him Anyway

Awhile back I wrote about 3 typical paths that dating relationships take (two healthy and one unhealthy) when one partner is more "in love" or devoted than the other. Read You're Just Not That Into Him...

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You're Just Not That Into Him (Part 3) - Couples Counseling

"Philip asks Sandy to marry him and she says yes because she figures that she does love him, not passionately, but maybe it's good enough, the relationship is comfortable, and besides she hasn't found...

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Love, Sacrifice and The Prisoner's Dilemma

My parents have just celebrated their 59th anniversary. Many years ago I asked them (out of earshot of each other) what made their relationship work so well. Without a moment's hesitation my mother...

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Is This "The One"?

Finding "the one" is the bread and butter of chick flicks but in a world populated by nearly 7 billion people the odds of finding a one-and-only soul mate are statistically close to zero. So why do so...

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Marry Him? When Are You "Settling"?

"Marc" wants me to marry him. Even though he has so much of what I'm looking for, I just wish he had the sense of humor and sexiness of the guy I broke up with before him. I'm feeling tempted to say...

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Conniving or Conflicted?

Have you ever dated someone who kept you guessing - hot one day and cold the next, telling you they just want to be friends while treating you like they're in love with you, or telling you they're in...

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"It's Not You, It's Me." Pseudo-Compassionate Break-Up Lines

"It's not you, it's me.""I hope we can still be friends". Have you ever used these lines while breaking up with someone? If you were the dumpee did it make you feel better or worse? I'm guessing...

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High-Achieving Black Women and Marriage: Not Choosing or Not Chosen?

She was a 40 year old black woman with a Ph.D., ready to find a mate in a city that is only 5% black. One day a tall good-looking black man about her age approached her in the gym. He hadn't finished...

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Unequal Love Across The Color Line

Stories about black women, marriage and interracial relationships have always generated controversy, strong opinions and stereotyped assumptions. Just this week Dr Laura took a call from a black female...

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F*** List Fallout

I don't think casual sex is inherently good or evil. But Karen Owen is suddenly a hero to some and a sick slut to others. So when is hooking up with abandon harmful and when is it a harmless...

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Four Reasons Smart People Make Stupid Dating Decisions

Every guy or girl in a bar looks more irresistible when you're sex or relationship-starved.read more

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